Have you ever sat doing something either insignificant or mindless and then realized that a couple of hours had passed? In those situations I have sometimes heard the phrase, “well there’s time I won’t get back.” The truth is that no matter how we spend our time, we don’t get those hours back. Even the suggestion that we “spend” time suggests that we can control it or “save” time. We can’t!
I do not say this in a pessimistic or defeatist way but rather as a way of recognizing the reality of time. The fact is that we cannot control time any more than we can create more of it. What we can do is live in the time we have.
More recently I have also come to understand God inviting us to be present in time with God. Rest in the time we have and rest in God’s presence. I believe that opening ourselves to the presence of God is the way to experience and enjoy the fullness and beauty of time.
Being present with God also means being fully present with those around us — the people and our environment. For me being present in nature, noticing the trees and plants, birds and animals, and even insects, helps me recognize God’s presence and abide in that time. Maybe that really is the “secret of life.